tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1255175937153741580.post2077802027026972534..comments2023-10-31T05:49:25.678-05:00Comments on ShauniSpeaks: LossAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16916659051394487272noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1255175937153741580.post-59033921516481525882008-12-05T01:45:00.000-06:002008-12-05T01:45:00.000-06:00we got same view on marriage. if we can hold on ou...we got same view on marriage. if we can hold on our relationship why not.we have to accept the fact that in any relationship there is joy and suffering. It's just how we handle it.Chelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03705123229771820011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1255175937153741580.post-67709559714878497242008-12-03T21:32:00.000-06:002008-12-03T21:32:00.000-06:00Calling it quits is a VERY hard thing. I was only ...Calling it quits is a VERY hard thing. I was only married for 3 years, had 2 kids and called it quits. Having kids that quick made me realize the Lord knew exactly what to do with the time I had. <BR/><BR/>It was the worst and best thing I have ever been through. The worst in that it is so demeaning, without really meaning to, and the best, cause I did what was best for the kids and I at the time. I would do it a million times over, for in going through that, it made me appreciate every small thing that was truly mine. <BR/><BR/>Now remarried, it took several, several years. I wouldn't take it back though, cause I learned who I really was, and the value of someone loving ME, warts and all...<BR/><BR/>Be there for your friend. A lot of people think it's contagious and run. You are right, you will prolly lose at least one, cause it will be taking sides if you talk to either. Calling it quits is a hard thing, but it's also a joy to look back and know that you dug deep inside and found out you have what it takes to survive.<BR/><BR/>Jen<BR/>http://thoughtsfromthefrontporch.blogspot.comJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16804925140206943149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1255175937153741580.post-40802437615206784032008-11-29T20:58:00.000-06:002008-11-29T20:58:00.000-06:00Those are some very strong words. I know I have sa...Those are some very strong words. I know I have said that I will never love again. I am the type of person who hates to be hurt. I really hate putting my heart out there and giving my all to someone who doesn't give the same in return.<BR/><BR/>I also like Jade's comment. I agree with her too. In time your friend will learn to love again. We can say never but it doesn't mean that it will happen. We can't predict the future.ImitationAngelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13647787932931903320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1255175937153741580.post-61794969935854452712008-11-29T20:33:00.000-06:002008-11-29T20:33:00.000-06:00This kind of reminds me of the ancient ghost house...This kind of reminds me of the ancient ghost houses in MT. Most were build back in the 19th century and contained hopeful homesteaders. Now those same houses stand barren and eerie; worn down and ready to fall down.<BR/><BR/>I imagine that those who suffer from a lost relationship are kind of like those abandoned houses. All hopeful and new one moment, then busted and run down the next.<BR/><BR/>For you friend's sake I hope she can rebuild her "house," all new and hopeful of course!Jadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15994038391779874680noreply@blogger.com